Vincent Tan Counselling & Coaching

It's never too late to be
what you might have been

George Eliot 

what is stopping you?

Can you identify the causes of anxiety and stress in your life? 

Do your fears prevent you from being the person you want to be?

Have your lived experiences and life history left you feeling alone in your thoughts and feelings?

What are the changes that you are desperately trying to make yet feel unable to move forward with?

It Can Be Different For you

Together we will:

Learn to discover your resilience by focusing on discovering your purpose

Have faith in your ability to cope with change by learning and practicing different ways of thinking

Find ways to break out of the repetitive cycles of thinking about the past and to extend your thinking into the present moment

Gender & sexuality counsellor and coach

I am passionately curious about how the experience of our early lives together with our life circumstances and events influences our sense of who we are and how we relate to others.

My special interest in how we experience our bodies both objectively and subjectively has led to my gaining extensive experience working psychodynamically in supporting clients of all ages explore their relationship to their body.  

As a compassionate psychotherapist and cancer survivor, I provide support to individuals navigating the challenges of a cancer diagnosis. I understand through my own lived experience the profound impact that a cancer journey can have on one’s emotional well-being.

I have worked across a wide range of clinical settings; NHS, university, schools and in private practice following a successful corporate career.

I gained a Masters in Psychodynamic Practice from the University of Oxford and was awarded a distinction for my research. 

I currently hold membership with the BACP, UPCA and UKCP professional bodies.

Your Journey Starts Here

Step 1


Fill out the form to schedule a consultation by clicking here

Step 2


We have an initial meeting to see if working together might be helpful

Step 3


If you wish to proceed, we can begin the journey

The Last Word

Walking along a pebble beach

Surviving Cancer

The doctors, consultants and nurses call me ‘the walking miracle’. People ask what made the difference. How did I beat cancer? What insights could I

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